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What are men’s issues? What does it mean to be a man? How does a man feel? How does a man behave? These are not easy questions. They have never been easy questions. The answers have become much more ...

When the person you love the most feels so far away. I know that relationships can sometimes be extremely challenging (I’ve been married for over 30 years). When you’re in the midst of an argument it ...

Why therapy for older adults and older couples? You go along in life thinking that you know who you are. Then you hit your 50’s, 60’s, or 70’s, and everything starts to change. The shift may be subtle ...

What is ENM - Ethical Non Monogamy? What does ENM mean? How can you have a deep, meaningful, and secure relationship with multiple partners? These are the difficult questions that my guest Jessica ...

Growing up with self-involved or emotionally immature parents can make childhood very hard. You may be well taken care of, have a stable home life, and get birthday parties, but still feel that ...

Masturbation is often a taboo subject in marriage. People keep it hidden out of shame and fear of hurting their partner's feelings. And in many marriages, one partner may try to forbid their partner ...

Starting to have sex again after an affair is often a major stumbling block for couples. Being intimate can trigger intense feelings of shame, anxiety, and sadness for both partners. But becoming more ...

Have you ever gone on a great vacation with your partner and ended up having a fight? It's a common problem. But it's so frustrating and confusing. In this episode, I'll explain why that happens and ...

Have you ever tried to apologize to your partner and it just seems to make things worse? That's because just saying "I'm sorry" isn't a real apology. In this episode, you'll learn how to make a real ...

In this episode, we're going to talk about how you can have a meaningful and important sex life no matter how old you are. The idea that seniors aren't interested in sex or stop having sex is a lie.

We all want to feel loved and be in a loving relationship. But for some of us, no matter how hard we try, we keep pushing people away. And all our efforts to be in a relationship seem to just fall ...